Shift
Point Method - Part
II
The Shift Point
Method is not for everyone. It is intended
for those that are seeking the missing piece that will
propel them to the next level or burst open the cage door
that has held them immobile for so long.
Those looking for an ongoing process of self
improvement involving changes in habits, brainstorming,
or support for personal accountability, are advised to
seek out a more traditional coaching method.
As mentioned in Part I, the client who will
get the most benefit from The Shift Point
Method is the one that comes with a
reasonably specific agenda in mind. An issue needing
resolution or a desire to achieve something where the
client feels stuck are good examples. The client should
have a certain amount of emotional investment in the area
of desired change, as this will heighten their desire to
allow a new way of thinking to emerge.
Another very important concept upon which
The Shift Point Method is based is
the idea of personal responsibility. The client’s
objective is usually to change their experience in one
form or another. If there is a belief that only
external influences are responsible for the client’s
experience, then Shift Point will be of no value. The
objective is to change the paradigm, at least partially,
of the client’s perception of their world so that the
desired experience will follow. The client must agree
that this is a viable proposition before the method can
be effective.
Assuming these elements are in place then
the coaching process can proceed. The heart of the
process is based on the idea that there is an assumption
in place and operating below the level of conscious
awareness that is preventing forward progress on the
issue. The skill of the coach is in helping the client
identify this assumption, question it, and then decide if
it is still useful to the client given the current
objective. Once the client sees with clarity what has
been obstructing their movement, it is usually a simple
matter of making a conscious decision to believe
something else more useful and supportive.
Identification of the blocking assumption is
the central skill of the coach. The client will give it
up in several different ways; either through
contradictory statements, statements that are emotionally
charged, or perhaps through some form of evasion. The key
here is that while the client may consciously think they
know what the problem is, it is usually some underlying
thought pattern of which they are unaware. Otherwise,
they would have already successfully resolved the
conflict. The coach works always with the client’s
permission towards either accepting or rejecting
assumptions. It is always up to the client to decide what
they want and what they want to believe.
The simple process of throwing the light of
awareness on assumptions that have been operating just
out of the reach of awareness is a powerful technique.
The mind usually responds brilliantly by forming a new
operating perspective, and eagerly moving on.
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